When I transferred to SMC and was basically back home I wasn't sure how that aspect of the school would play out for me. Don't get me wrong, I love my family, but at my old school at least I had the freedom to be me and only see them during breaks. Now they could swing by whenever for a quick visit. God knows what state my room would be in or what scene they could walk into in my common room.
As I settled in at SMC I realized all of the freedom I still had and that being 30 minutes from home had more benefits than negatives. I could go home for my brother's birthday and a quick, cheap haircut or I could just stay on campus and go home for breaks like everyone else. The campus doesn't feel like I'm in Burlington, a place I've known since I was little. It's separate from everything I had known and was completely new. I just have the added benefit of knowing all the good restaurants and not getting lost driving through Essex.
I've seen more benefits than otherwise from being so close. This weekend was an absolutely prime example. On Thursday I started to feel pretty sick and by Friday morning I felt like absolute death. All I wanted was to get into bed and never get out. Instead of having to stay at school and fend for myself, which probably would have meant some sickling grocery shopping for oj and cough drops and massive amounts of NyQuil to sleep through the weekend hubbub, I called my mom who promptly picked me up and brought me home. I arrived to chicken soup prepared by my Gramma and a big couch with plenty of cozy blankets. While home i felt like a sick little kid who stayed home from school. My mom picked up a delicious dinner from Mimmo's and I watched tv all weekend. I came back feeling and looking so much better than I left (seriously, I was just short of actual zombie) and wouldn't have had such a quick turn around if I had stayed at school.
The moral of the story of my horrible illness is that while being close to home can be seen as a bad thing in terms of deciding on a school, maybe the stigma isn't necessarily true. Yes, you know the area. Yes, you're comfortable there. Yes, you are close to your family. No, you're not getting away and going somewhere completely new. But when you go to college that's a new enough experience in itself. It's a new campus with new people and new opportunities. I think that if it's a school you absolutely love then don't let its location close to home deter you. I promise that you will find more positives that you might expect.







